Caliatheart80

41 • Female • Winston-Salem

I'm from California. Most Ute men in the beginning find me: intimidating, rude, crude, loud, immature, strong willed, and impatient. Which usually leads to them either ghosting me or backing away slowly. They were either an idiot or just too timid for my liking. ;-) Those who stuck around and got to break through my shell realize that I'm: intelligent, confident, sexy, funny, open minded, sexual, and honest. Yes, but it might take time to find that! I have my guard up for many reasons! :-) I've had many successes here though! I'm not giving up and neither should you! Are you willing to stick around and see that? I'm looking for a married/attached male, 35-50 years of age, within 20 miles of Draper, who's healthy inside and out, not a gym rat, not an uneducated buffoon, employed, and most of all not too busy to have a great and passionate FWB! Don't message me if you're: (currently) LDS, too busy, never had an affair, sleep around, have ghosted, hate messaging, obese, short, over-dramatic, overly sexual in the beginning, and/or not even near my city. Otherwise, I don't care if you're rich, poor, not from here, a native, artsy, a jock, whatever. I am not here to change your life and you're not here to change mine. We're here to merely enhance it.